To my ex husband, thank you

Thank you. Thank you for cheating. Thank you for making it easier to walk away after almost 13 years of marriage. Thank you for giving me freedom to find myself again.

I didn’t realize how miserable I’d become. Didn’t realize how much tiptoeing I had to do in our relationship to not set off your anxieties or depressive funks. You weren’t abusive, but you were an emotional drain.

You zapped me of energy. I didn’t realize how being with you was soul-sucking. My physical and emotional health have improved. I’m happier. Other’s have noticed that I’m happier.

I forgave you a while back, my anger has dissipated, and now I’m thankful.

So once again, thank you. Thank you for giving me my life back.

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